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Marriage -its ideal & reality
Nov 4, '07 3:55 AMfor everyone
Many years ago I thought I'd better marry not so pretty woman because I don't have to worry about her being another's love after we married.
Many years later I realised I can't divorce her. If I did so, she would have no another husband. Certainly she has not loved by many guys, but also from now on she will not be loved by others but me. I would divorce a woman if she were very pretty. I wouldn't have married a pretty woman and I would divorce a pretty woman. It was really a right decision to get married to not so pretty woman in many aspects.
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ladyinredxx wrote on Nov 4
not all pretty women are unfaithful


ullangoo wrote on Nov 4
ladyinredxx saidnot all pretty women are unfaithful Right! And some less pretty are. Same with men.


ladyinredxx wrote on Nov 4
thats very true, i dont consider myself ugly, though far from beautiful, i was a good faithful wife, and a good mother, but my ex couldnt stay faithful xx


mercedo wrote today at 1:24 AM
ladyinredxx saidi was a good faithful wife, and a good mother, but my ex couldnt stay faithful xx I know just too many people around me, both men and women, who divorced. There are many cases in divorce, though, it is certain that one feels more gains while the other feels more loss. Alimony ought to occupy its vacancy, but I heard just few cases alimony was rightfully paid. I can't divorce her for many reasons other than her looks. I pretended to be a fool by attributing to such a stupid idea that I raised in my journal.

ullangoo wrote today at 1:37 AM
mercedo saidI can't divorce her for many reasons other than her looks. I pretended to be a fool by attributing to such a stupid idea that I raised in my journal. OK. Leads to a good discussion. :-)


mercedo wrote today at 12:02 AM
ladyinredxx saidnot all pretty women are unfaithful True, but it is also true that a pretty woman tends to get more opportunities to be seduced by men. Therefore a pretty woman can have more chances to have new relations than not so pretty woman. This is a matter of probability.However yeah, you are right. There are two types among pretty women. One is faithful and the others are not. Apparently I want to go out with a pretty woman who takes for granted that love and lover relations ought to be faithful. Once I had deeply involved with an unfaithful pretty woman. It was a very hideous experience.


ullangoo wrote on Nov 4
You know what? Some men go for intelligence or goodness or loyalty or ---, anything but looks. Women too. I've seen the ugliest people getting married more than once, not to mention having many lovers.

ullangoo wrote on Nov 4
If it's you on your headshot, you should be a bit more confident. :-)


ginaslove wrote on Nov 4
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder . Divorce isn't good just because of ugly or pretty . It is a hurtful thing that is done too much .For all the wrong reasons .


mercedo wrote today at 1:31 AM
ginaslove said It is a hurtful thing that is done too much .For all the wrong reasons . I have to be overwhelmingly selfish to be able to divorce her, up to now I'm not.


dlopez wrote on Nov 4
I don't think that looks would tell if one would be faithful or not. and if i were your wife, and I've read your statements? ... I would divorce you as soon as I can. Sorry, can't help but feel sorry for the one you married. She surely does not deserve to be discussed in such a manner. It's not what we see outside that makes a person beautiful, it's what's inside... You should check how you look inside once in a while.


ullangoo wrote on Nov 4
dlopez saidand if i were your wife, and I've read your statements? ... I would divorce you as soon as I can. ME TOO!!

mercedo wrote today at 1:41 AM
dlopez saidand if i were your wife, and I've read your statements? ... I would divorce you as soon as I can. There are some rightful cases divorce ought to be admitted. But I think in many cases divorce is for a woman just an unhappy event. Divorce is in my honest opinion admitted mainly out of men's selfishness.


ullangoo wrote today at 12:17 AM
I've once met a quite horrible Japanese guy, but I didn't conclude that all Japanese were horrible. They certainly aren't.I understand that the unfaithful woman made you feel very bad, but really: you shouldn't make such generalizations.