Phone Call From America
2005.06.24 11:33

Two days ago in 2:45 pm abruptly I got a phone call from my ex-wife now lives in San Jose, California, USA.
She said she missed me, and I wanted to talk to her longer. It was at the midst of my work, but it was a little bit lucky. It was the very last moment I finished my break. After all I extended my break fifteen minutes. She is the same woman that sent me a Valentine Card this year.
I've been repeatedly saying that she should tell me her email address, but every time I ask, she seems to be reluctant, saying she is slow at typing. It seems to me that she doesn't like to type.
She was a woman who didn't understand the distinction from four seasons, because she raised up in a sub-tropical country? Was a woman who didn't understand the expression of time like 15 o'clock( namely 3 p.m) 18 o'clock (namely 6 p.m.), I had to instruct her that she should subtract 12 from the figure I mentioned.
There's no wonder. What I wonder is she still loves me. Since we separeted for more than ten years.
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Relationships and time(Score:2)
by n54 (807502) on 2005.06.25 9:49 (#12906256) (http://slashdot.org/~n54/journal Last Journal: 2004.10.16 22:46)
First: sorry if you find me to disappear for long periods, that's just me :)Relationships seperated by time is an intriguing topic.In all likelihood she is not the same person as she was and you are not the same person you were, so if it is actually the case that she still loves you it is probably a part of the you that you were she longs for, maybe a part of your personality that you still have though.Ten years... it is a long time with plenty of opportunities to become another version of yourself incrementally as you change a small opinion here and there, think new thoughts, experience new things.In addition almost all of both of your bodies has also been replaced during these years, cell by cell.All this applies both for better and worse of course :) gambatte!? ;)--this comment is provided "as is" and without any express or implied legibility or congruity [...]
Re:Relationships and time(Score:1)
by mercedo (822671) on 2005.06.25 22:03 (#12908514) (http://slashdot.org/~mercedo/journal/109855 Last Journal: 2005.09.27 11:22)
As a matter of fact, almost three years ago she abruptly visited my house asking let her stay for a while. ..At that time I was in a good relationship with other woman here, so I just let her stay but we didn't have any physical relations that we used to have long long ago. I was really afraid of my then girl-friend noticing her in my house. But anyway without being noticed by my girl-friend, I had her leave.
She is a traveller from the past. Because I had my own real life going on at that time, I had her go.
Usually ex-girlfriend, ex-wife live only in our memory, we have had times to recall our happy or miserable days spent with them, but then when the ones appeared in our daily life abruptly, we ended up comparing which should be regarded to first thing, then usually we choose the relationship right now. But if we hadn't any notable relationship with anyone, we might choose to go back to what we used to have long long long ago.
Depends on the cases, it is possible enough for me to accept her again if terms and conditions some time in the future matches. In order to prepare for the day to come, I've been training how to deal with different characters, personalities almost everyday, where? here!--Ancient Greek Philosophers -18c Enlightenment Thinkers -Slashdotters