Re:I married at age 35 (Score:1)
by Mer_panacea (1381133) on 2008.12.29 11:40 (#26254161) Homepage Journal
>marriage is a big strategic win.
I married at age 34.
It was not until the age 31 that I had a romantic relation with someone for the first time in my life. I was busy studying throughout my twenties.
My first love was Filipino and she and I spent about a year including living together for three months in Manilla. We were really serious about marrying but for many technical reasons we were unable to. We separated under mutual consent.
I got married to a Japanese woman after this and still we have been married I mean in legally speaking. Our cooperation never lasted forever as we swore at the wedding ceremony. It had only lasted for two years.
My current common-law wife is my fourth girlfriend in my life. We've been living together for a year up to now. My common-law wife has been giving me a great satisfaction and protection. I am satisfied with our relationship. We are not so young. She's 48, I'm 47. My legal wife is 44.
For my part there's a difference between marriage on paper and vitual marriage. Marriage on paper imposes on me a lot of responsibility. My legal wife depends on me mainly economically.
Was it good for me to have married? Yes. It is good for us to have someone who needs us more than I do.