Old , elder, eldest
Sep 24, '07 7:44 AMfor everyone
I have two girl friends. One is one year older than I and the other is one year younger than I. For those who don't feel distinction among 47, 46, 45, this blog entry is irrelevant. But that matters a lot especially to me.
A woman one year older than I is kinder, nicer, more dedicated, more self-restraint, more sacrificial. She takes care of me more than I can expect her to do.
On the other hand, a woman one year younger than I is meaner, less dedicated, more selfish, more capricious, less sacrificial to me. She takes care of herself before she does something for my sake.
I love senior woman. We are all old and among older ones I choose oldest.

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pussyhotlady wrote on Sep 25
maybe, because young ones are less experienced than the older one....(^;^)...and still trying to experiment things out...lol


mercedo wrote on Sep 25
Amazingly enough, it's true.Both women have many similarities. Both got married at their age 20, had three kids. The youngest kid was 18 and 21. But their jobs are very different. 45 year old woman is hostess, who often entertain celebrities, and the other 47 year old woman is a shopkeeper. Probably younger ones tend to behave like a spoiled child when she is with older one like me. But I am also an unstable person, so for me it's much better to be with a woman who is senior to me for she knows how to deal with a spoiled child. When younger chicks behave somehow capriciously, I get lost what to do.


siliconjesus wrote on Sep 25
It sounds to me that you're placing too much significance on one set of variables.


iambmetammy wrote on Sep 25
Yeah, I'm going to have to agree with SJ here. If one is a hostess she is more used to a frivolous life and being pampered. While the other one is a shopkeeper who is used to providing customer service so would be better prepared to take care of you.


mercedo wrote today at 1:25 AM
We have to take into consideration as to the difference in their jobs. So suppose a woman one year senior to me works in an entertainment company and a woman who is one year junior to me works in a shop. Fortunately I had two perfect examples from my experience. A woman one year senior to me works in an entertainment company above all of things took care of me even too courteously. A woman who is one year junior to me works in a shop couldn't take care of herself at all, let alone me. From my experience. I don't mean to generalise.

mercedo wrote today at 1:12 AM
Yeah, that's solemnly correct. This is mercedo, king of generalisation. I tend to generalise too much. As you know the aim of this journal entry is to look into which case is for men happier, to marry a woman senior to us or junior to us.This topic is thought over many times and I concluded as I wrote here.If my example is just one out of ten, I would rather not generalise one example for all. If my example is one of seven or eight cases out of ten, I would rather generalise my case.But any conclusion I had is also biased as long as I cannot represent a whole men.So this is just an opinion. In Japan's sayings we have some proverb, that is ' Look for a wife who is one year senior to you even by wearing golden slippers.' means however it's laborious, you ought to find a wife whose age is one year older than you. There're exceptions, but we'd better know a general tendency seven or eight out of ten people would be better to refer. That's what I intended to do.


jawtheshark wrote on Sep 25, edited on Sep 25
Doesn't matter at all...If there is one person that is kind, gentle, understanding and caring it's my wife and she's 5 years younger than I am.It depends entirely on the person, age is irrelevant.

mercedo wrote today at 1:33 AM
jawtheshark saidIt depends entirely on the person, age is irrelevant. Completely correct.I won't be able to find a better half unless I abandon my stupid analysing and generalising tendency. If we love someone, that is more than those criteria as age, skin colour, nationality.It is love.